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Volume 2; Issue 7; April 2026 Hola! Do you ever feel like somebody's watching you? I do. This past month, I've been watched, mostly through online, virtual and in-person events. I admit it's mostly of my own making and a bit intimidating. But then there's the new reality of being watched, like my Alexa app waiting to be summoned, scam e-mails that know too much, something popping up on social media related to a recent conversation, or an AI suggesting proposed language at the beginning of my search. This got me thinking. Do I still have control of my private thoughts? I hope so and thus, the reason I write. After all, thoughts are humanity's last remaining freedom, as confirmed by true accounts of imprisonment. But then there are times that being watched can be an opportunity to help others, like when children watch their parents. What I've come to learn is allowing others to watch me can be important work, and it has rewards and consequences. So if you choose to share your thoughts, inevitably some will disagree, but that's okay. But for those that rather watch others, remember to lean in towards kindness as you never know who's watching you. For more about my experience of being watched, read Bodega News, along with meeting some talented authors I watched: Other Magical Tales. My Spanish word for this month is Presentá, because she's always watching. Bodega News
Spanish Word Translation: Presentá: Someone who's nosy or always meddling, like watching you from afar. When I was a kid, I often heard my Tias y Tios say, "¡Que Presenta!", which was not a compliment, since it meant that neighbor, friend, or family member had overstepped with their questions. Fast forward to my twenties and it felt like I was always being asked, "Do you have a boyfriend?" or "When will you get married?" It was exhausting having all these eyes on me. The truth is that the stress I was feeling was self-imposed, although many in my culture got married much younger. In the end, my aunts and uncles were just making small talk, since they didn't know what else to ask a twenty-something. Thank goodness the culture has shifted, and now we can ask "What career will you choose?" and "Where will you live?" but I can't help thinking that it's the same pressures, just different questions. So if you've ever been accused of being a Presentá or Presentao, be rest assured that maybe it isn't you.Until next month...Stay tuned Brujas! Other Magical Tales: |
I'm an author, playwright, poet and blogger delving into the fictional world of all things related to bodegas, botánicas and creative tales of the supernatural, the unexpected and the phenomenal. My writing draws on the bilingual, multicultural world that shaped me. I'm the author of the Bodega Botanica Tales series, which are all stand alone novellas. Stay tuned Brujas!
Volume 2; Issue 8, May 2026 Hola! Can you keep up with all the change? I can't. This past month, I dedicated hours to learning software, only to discover a better version existed and no longer relevant to my project. My health shifted just as I was feeling stronger. And the weather unexpectedly turned cold just as I was getting used to the warmer days. And even positive change, like getting new opportunities, felt impossible to maintain. This got me thinking. Why is change so hard? Change by...
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